1) Respect someone's presence. When you are speaking with someone whether it be at the grocery store, and appointment, or in line in any public venue it is best to stay off your phone until you are no longer facing anyone. People are less desired to assist your when you are preoccupied with any electronic device. And don't forget to say your please and thank you's.
2) Arrive early. When you have booked any type of appointment, doctors, hair, or spa appointment arrive at least five minutes early. This allows you to take your time rather then rush in and out. You can use the restroom and may even be able to take some deep relaxing breaths before any appointment begins. When you arrive when the appointment was supposed to start you lose time with whoever is taking care of you because they most likely have to see someone after you. You may even get lucky if you arrive early and they may go over five to ten minutes in their service :).
3) Tip generously. If you had a wonderful experience at an appointment or a venue show your appreciation by adding a few more dollars then you typically would to show your appreciation for the work someone took the time to do. There are standards for restaurants, spas, and valets.
4) Respect your elders. This goes for acknowledging them and allowing them to have the right of way. You will want this respect when you get older so think of how it would be if you were a little slower moving to the face paced nature of the busy life. Be patient. You may even learn something through them ;).
5) Stay positive. When something goes astray in your life. Stay positive about it. Do not expect the worst. When you receive a compliment do not shut it down empower and embrace it. It puts a smile on your face and may even help someone else that day. Smiles are contagious :)
5) Slow Down. When you are in a rush to get somewhere people will know it and are more likely to assist you. This could be in the car or in a store. Plan ahead to stay on time and relax if you are running a little behind. You most likely have a phone so contact someone if you are running late. It is better to be safe then sorry especially when it comes to driving in a hurry.
6) Keep your hands off... when you are meeting someone for the first time and you are sick or just finishing an illness. Do not forget to cover your mouth in the nook of your arm when you cough or sneeze. It is out of consideration for those around you.
7) Never show up empty handed...when you are visiting a friend, loved one, in laws, or whomever has offered you into their home. It is very kind to bring a bottle of wine, some baked goods, a plant over flower arrangement, or a special something for anyone who extends their home to you. Think of it if they were coming to your home, wouldn't you be appreciative for their generosity?
8) Stay confident. When you are at an event and it may be a little awkward, keep your body language strong and stay engaged with what or whomever is around you. Treat others the way your would like to be treated and you will be the belle of the ball with the great attitude your have for the people around you. This will leave a lasting impression for those you met and could lead to a great outcome in the future.
9) Write thank you notes. Yes, people are very appreciative when they receive a thank you note for something they did: a meal they offered or a gift they gave. This may seem old fashioned but keep good ties with people. Good things and connections will be made with those are thankful.
10) Communication. Knowing how to properly communicate with others is key in stressful or misunderstood instances. Keep communication open with others to avoid misunderstandings. Use "I" statements instead of "you..." this will change the tone and won't cause the person you are speaking with will have a defensive remark.
http://www.thegloss.com/2009/04/29/fashion/10-essential-social-etiquette-rules/
http://fateh.sikhnet.com/sikhnet/articles.nsf/9dee2aa6164e1d9b87256671004e06c7/482586a0c637a29d872576fd007c5092!OpenDocument
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